“Pursue what catches your heart, not what catches your eyes.” -Roy T. Bennett My class this week had a conversation about motivation. The question came up, “What can I do to motivate someone to invest in themselves if they don’t seem to be self-motivated?” My answer was very simple. I don’t think you currently know what motivates them. A mistake many leaders make is assuming that because something is motivating to them that it will be motivating to their team member(s). Howev

“I worry about the things I can affect, and the things I have no control over I move by.” -Lenny Wilkens A great mystery to me is how much humans want to be in control. The reason this continues to astound me is because there are so many things going on in our day that we have no control over. The desire to have control isn’t an inherently negative one, but have you ever gotten caught up trying to maintain control over something that you can’t possibly change/fix? When this o

“Grief is like the ocean; it comes in waves; ebbing and flowing. Sometimes the water is calm, and sometimes it is overwhelming. All we can do is learn to swim.” -Vicki Harrison When I think about loss, there are a lot of days where you can feel like the protagonist in a movie or tv show when they are getting tossed about by the water. The scenes where they get pulled under and are fighting to catch their breath. The only big difference is that we know they will make it becaus

“In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing.” -Theodore Roosevelt I was working with leaders this week and we were talking about service. An attendee asked, “What do we do if a customer comes in with a request that will take time, but we have a team member who has to leave?” Now this is a great question because it is a real question. I have lived in those moments wh

“Be patient with yourself. You are growing stronger every day. The weight of the world will become lighter…and you will begin to shine brighter. Don’t give up. -Robert Tew As we wrapped up baseball season for my boys the other day, I realized how often we don’t stop to appreciate growth and development. As coaches, we were discussing how far the boys had come over the past few months. During the season, I didn’t stop to reflect on the growth of each player because growth is s

“Losers have tons of variety. Champions just take pride in learning to hit the same old boring winning shots.” -Vic Braden Sometimes we can over complicate simple things. We want something to be exciting and engaging or we mentally check out a little bit. Has that ever happened to you? The idea that things we do repeatedly get boring can be a predictor to whether or not we will achieve the results we want. If we decide to try something new to “mix it up” instead of sticking w

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